
Let me explain...
I'm starting with Coffee because this is the focal point of the entire journey. As I've walked the most difficult and maybe most important journey of my life, I've learned that this focal point needed much stronger help than I initially allowed myself to admit. It needed the help of heaven's intervention and an understanding of psychological realities. To begin, though, let me explain what "Coffee" means.

Ingredients
ingredient 1. Own your divisive/destructive/toxic behavior.
ingredient 2. Have a sincere apologetic spirit with Godly remorse.
ingredient 3. Commit to asking the Lord to free you from the behavior.
ingredient 4. Spend time rebuilding trust for those whose trust was broken.
The Story
I wrote a song called Coffee as a part of a story album about my Texas cattle ranching family. There was a great division in our family that echoed out for generations and is still affecting us, in some cases, in devastating ways. The song Coffee includes lyrics describing four things that must be present for relationship reconciliations. Without all four ingredients, full reconciliation can not be accomplished.
I've updated the "ingredient" descriptions that I have used in the past because, as I've re-surrendered everything about my life back to God, I've had my eyes opened to some real needs within them. You might see old merch with a different version. In an act of ongoing radical repentance, I'm here to boldly share my journey. In the last several years, I have knowingly watered down a boldness in what I believe regarding God, His Word, and the Kingdom of Heaven. I've done this looking for acceptance, or at least to experience less rejection. This has cost me far too much.